“I was in such a negative space when we lost Bennett. Donating his milk to babies in need felt like a way to add something positive. It made me feel connected to him, like his life meant something.” – Bereaved Milk Donor, Savannah
“Donating was a way to show my daughter how much I love her. I understand what it’s like for families who are scared and need help. I don’t have a lot to give but I have this. Ultimately, it was a gift that Evie would have wanted me to make.” – Bereaved Milk Donor, Caelah-Beth
“I feel blessed to have been able to nurture and protect so many little lives. I’m thankful for Mothers’ Milk Bank Northeast and the service they provide – not only to babies but to mothers who are faced with the harsh reality of returning home from the hospital with empty arms.” – Bereaved Milk Donor, Letitia
If you have lost a baby, or know someone who has, please accept our deepest sympathies.
While donating milk after pregnancy or infant loss is not right for everyone, many find comfort in knowing their milk can help save another baby’s life.
Bereaved Donors – What to Know
- Any amount of milk is a gift and greatly appreciated.imp sou
- All milk donors must first undergo a standard health screening to ensure eligibility.
- Our trauma-informed donor intake team is here to provide support every step of the way.
Bereavement & Loss Support
Milk Donation After Loss This guide was created in collaboration with our trauma-informed donor intake specialists. It explains the milk donation process and includes a list of trusted bereavement organizations.
Additional Bereavement & Loss Support
Empty Arms Offers resources, peer groups, and one-on-one support after miscarriage, stillbirth, termination for medical reasons, or infant loss.
Lactation After Loss—La Leche League USA Information and support for parents navigating lactation after loss. Includes options for continuing to express milk, donating milk, or gradually stopping milk production.
Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep Provides the gift of remembrance portraits to parents experiencing the death of a baby.
The Tears Foundation Provides financial assistance for burial or cremation. It also offers grief support groups and peer companions for families who have lost a baby or child.
If you’re ready to become a milk donor, share your experience, or learn more, our team is here to help.
Please call 617-527-6263, ext. 3, or email us.
